My guest today is Josselyne Herman-Saccio, who I met through our mutual friend, Jennifer Hill – also a guest on the Wealthy Wellthy Podcast. I knew immediately that Josselyne’s story would resonate with you…because it did with me.
LIke so many of us, Josselyne dreamed of stardom as a child but was discouraged early on by her father. Despite that setback, she pursued her dream of being a singer and eventually signed a record deal AND had a number-one hit. Where others often let naysayers get in the way of their dreams, Josselyne persevered and went to the top of the charts!
In our conversation, Josselyne explains what it means to be “unmessable with.” She also shares how staying committed to your goals, rather than reacting to obstacles, is the key to success.
Now a best-selling author, career strategist, and coach, Josselyne helps people take clear, purposeful actions toward their vision, sharing simple advice that can apply to anyone looking to achieve their dreams.
If you’re like me and have been told that you can’t do it, this is the episode for you! Equal parts inspiration and action steps, this conversation will catapult you to the next level!
Top 5 Takeaways From This Conversation:
- The Power of Being “Unmessable With” Joselyn introduces the concept of being “unmessable with,” which means having the ability to pivot quickly from reaction to creation. This skill allows you to fulfill your vision in life despite challenging circumstances, emphasizing the importance of staying focused on your goals rather than getting derailed by external factors.
- Action Trumps Motivation Motivation is debunked as a myth. Instead of waiting to feel motivated, Joselyn encourages taking action regardless of how you feel. This approach suggests that feelings often follow actions, and relying on motivation can hinder progress and leave you vulnerable to external factors.
- The Importance of Clear Communication The conversation highlights the significance of making clear requests and invitations in both personal and professional settings. Joselyn emphasizes the need for specific, actionable language to achieve desired outcomes and improve relationships.
- Overcoming Imposter Syndrome Joselyn provides a practical approach to dealing with imposter syndrome. By creating a comprehensive list of achievements and having it objectively presented back to you, individuals can reshape their self-perception and overcome feelings of inadequacy.
- Shifting from Reaction to Creation The discussion emphasizes the importance of recognizing when you’re in a reactive state and learning to shift to a creative mindset. This involves identifying physical “red flags” of reactivity and using pattern interruption techniques to return to a neutral state, allowing for more productive and vision-aligned actions.
Here Are Five of My Favorite Quotes:
- “Being unmessable with means to be able to pivot from reaction to creation on a dime and fulfill your vision in life.”
- “Anytime you think something should be a different way or shouldn’t be the way it is, you’re going to be messable with and you’re going to be in that world of survival.”
- “Action produces results. Hoping does not produce results.”
- “Motivation is a myth. It’s completely not necessary for anything.”
- “Have your word drive your actions, not your feelings.”
Time Stamps:
- [00:00] – [00:59] Introduction to the Wealthy Wealthy podcast and guest Joselyn Ehrman Sachio
- [01:00] – [03:38] Joselyn’s childhood dream of singing and her father’s discouraging comment
- [03:39] – [06:24] Discussion on taking action to achieve goals and the concept of being “unmessable with”
- [06:25] – [09:59] Exploration of rejection in the entertainment industry and reframing negative experiences
- [10:00] – [13:20] The impact of social media on receiving feedback and handling negative comments
- [13:21] – [17:27] Explanation of Joselyn’s methodology for noticing and interrupting reactive patterns
- [17:28] – [21:27] The importance of making clear requests and invitations in personal and professional settings
- [21:28] – [25:59] Discussion on the power of language and distinctions in communication
- [26:00] – [30:59] Deep dive into the concept of “registration” and its role in eliciting action
- [31:00] – [35:59] Exploration of common obstacles faced by entrepreneurs and high performers
- [36:00] – [40:59] Addressing imposter syndrome and Joselyn’s process for overcoming it
- [41:00] – [45:59] Discussion on limiting beliefs, fears, and their impact on personal and professional growth
- [46:00] – [50:25] Explanation of Joselyn’s approach to helping people live their dreams now, not someday
- [50:26] – [51:45] Busting the myth of motivation and final thoughts on taking action
- [51:46] – [52:18] Closing remarks and information about Krisstina’s YouTube channel
Myth Buster: “Motivation Is Not Necessary for Success”
Joselyn challenges the common belief that motivation is essential for taking action and producing results. She argues that motivation is actually a myth and completely unnecessary for achieving success. Waiting for motivation can leave you vulnerable to external factors and hinder your progress. Instead, Joselyn emphasizes the importance of taking action regardless of how you feel, asserting that feelings will often follow the actions you take. She encourages listeners to be driven by their word and commitments rather than relying on fleeting feelings of motivation. This perspective offers a refreshing and empowering approach to personal and professional growth, freeing individuals from the need to feel “motivated” before pursuing their goals.
Link :
Be Unmessablewith: The Podcast hosted by Josselyne Herman-Saccio
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